Friday, March 18, 2011

NIck Kelo

Most people haven't even heard about this but on Feb 23 Nick Kelo a 13 year old boy from Akron, Ohio, allegedly shot him self in his home due to gay bullying. He was picked on terribly because he switched from football to band in his school, so people thought he "must be gay." How does joining band make someone gay? His family assured the public that he was not gay and that he was just a 13year old having a hard time. His mother said this to a Queerty;
"As the mother of Nick, I am asking you to take this story down immediately. You have plagiarized the well written report by Kim in the Akron Beacon Journal, you misinterpreted facts and you have wrongly accused my son of being gay. I am outraged and horrified. As the daughter of a gay mother I know the struggles of the gay community well. I do not appreciate you using my son as a poster child for your cause, there are enough good honest gay people who need your help, my son was not one of them.
My son's death was a tragic accident the resulted from his frustration of repeated bullying, yes, but it goes back years and is related more to his intellectual gifts and abilities. He was in no way suicidal or depressed. He was too smart for that. He was frustrated and angry and made an impulsive 13 year old error in judgment which led to a tragic accident due to the report from the lab that shows no gun powder residue on his hands. My son was not gay, your story is inaccurate and you are doing a huge disservice to both him, the children in this school who are bullied still today and the gay community.
Please retract this story immediately."
He was spit on and picked on to a terrible degree and what i don't understand is why his story is so unheard to the public. We heard so much about the other stories like this but most people didn't even hear about Nick and it feels like he has been forgotten about. Nick Kelo is just as important as anyone of the other tragic cases of  bullying and he deserves to have his story told and not forgotten about. I would like Nick's mom to know that we are not saying or assuming that her son was gay in any form and believe her when she says he was not. But we feel his story is incredibly important and we just want people to know how terrible gay bullying is even when you're using it against someone who is not gay such as Nick Kelo. No one should feel as if they need to take their own life. So this is Nick's story and we hope all of you will read it and not misinterpret it into something it's not. 
At the tender age of 13, Nicholas Kelo Jr. knew what it was like to be relentlessly bullied. It may have been what persuaded him to pry open a safe inside his Rittman home and remove the gun that killed him.
Each night when Nick's mother, Jacqueline, left the University of Akron, where she worked in the political science department, she would call her son and chat on her way home. When she came through the door, he routinely welcomed her with a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and carrots. But something was terribly wrong Feb. 23.
''I called at 6:30 and there was no answer,'' said the grieving mother, her voice fading. ''And I kept calling. There was no answer.''
When she arrived home, she found Nick near death from a gunshot wound, lying on the living room floor.
''Deep down in our hearts, this was not a child who would have planned to take his life,'' said the boy's father, Nicholas Sr. ''He may have been bullied to the point that he felt like he needed to protect himself.''
Now Nick's mother said that the gun went off by accident and that Kelo never really meant to commit suicide but we do not know if that is true or not. Either way he was picked on because others thought he was gay and it's not fair for anyone to be treated like that. So whether he was gay or not or whether he really meant to hurt himself or not, he should have not been treated the way he was and his death was absolutely tragic. I will not be posting links to any of the stories about him due to the sensitivity of his mother saying that what other websites are posting are untrue. We do not want to post anything false or tell a story that is taken out of context. We feel horrible for his family and we wish his mother and the rest of his family the best in this tragic time of their lives. 
A&L

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Lady Gaga Gay Anthem

Lady Gaga's new song Born This Way is said to be the new "gay anthem." I think what Lady Gaga is doing is great! Everyone loves her and if this is the way to get this message across then so be it! Read the lyrics and see for yourself. It's not just the "gay anthem" either, i think that these are lyrics that everyone can relate to. It's wonderful to know that soon everyone will be singing the lyrics to this song and spreading a message that so desperately needs to be heard.

Born This Way
It doesn't matter if you love him, or capital H-I-M
Just put your paws up
'Cause you were born this way, baby

My mama told me when I was young
We are all born superstars
She rolled my hair and put my lipstick on
In the glass of her boudoir

"There's nothin' wrong with lovin' who you are"
She said, "'Cause He made you perfect, babe"
"So hold your head up, girl and you you'll go far,
Listen to me when I say"

I'm beautiful in my way,
'Cause God makes no mistakes
I'm on the right track, baby
I was born this way

Don't hide yourself in regret,
Just love yourself and you're set
I'm on the right track, baby
I was born this way

Ooo, there ain't no other way
Baby, I was born this way
Baby, I was born this way
Ooo, there ain't other way
Baby, I was born-
I'm on the right track, baby
I was born this way

Don't be a drag, just be a queen
Don't be a drag, just be a queen
Don't be a drag, just be a queen
Don't be!

Give yourself prudence and love your friends
Subway kid, rejoice your truth
In the religion of the insecure
I must be myself, respect my youth

A different lover is not a sin
Believe capital H-I-M (hey, hey, hey)
I love my life, I love this record and
Mi amore vole fe yah (Love needs faith)

I'm beautiful in my way,
'Cause God makes no mistakes
I'm on the right track, baby
I was born this way

Don't hide yourself in regret,
Just love yourself and you're set
I'm on the right track, baby
I was born this way

Ooo, there ain't no other way
Baby, I was born this way

~Anna&Lisa

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Matthew Shepard

Even though it was such a long time ago, this story is still just so very sad. It was the first hate crime that I had ever heard of and is the reason I am so passionate about stopping gay bullying.

Dennis Shepard's speech
Matthew Shepard
Laramie Project

~Anna

Monday, November 8, 2010

Clint McCance apologizes and says he will resign from school board.

Clint McCance apology

What an absolutely pathetic apology! He isn’t sorry, he is just sorry he got caught! If he really didn’t believe in what he said then he wouldn’t have said it. I have no respect for his apology and I’m extremely grateful that he is resigning from the school board.  In this video he states that he is not the monster he’s been made out to be, wrong! I’d say anyone who makes such ignorant comments and says such awful heartrending things is a monster.
Though I’m truly upset he has made these comments I DO NOT commend the death threats he and his family have been getting. We are upset that he said he wanted people to take their lives and that he wanted people to die, so let’s not mock the fact that we don’t believe in such statements by sending him death threats and making basically that same mistake that he did. In my last post I stated that I wanted all people named Clint McCance to commit suicide and I didn’t mean that at all. As I’m sure most of you know I simply was trying to make a point by asking him how he would feel if it was said about him. None of us want anyone to commit suicide or feel bad because someone said something like that, and that is exactly the point I was trying to make. But looking back on the statement I wanted to clarify that up for everyone so that there was no chance of it being taken the wrong way.
Also the parents of Asher Brown one of the victims of suicide due to gay bullying were in these videos. I think that they dealt with McCance’s statements with grace and showed him much compassion. I feel just absolutely terrible for them. I can’t imagine having to go through something so traumatic and I wish the best for them!